Relationship problem

Question by stacy18 Reward: 25 Pond Points + 10 Knowledge Tokens Status: Pending a resolution
Hi I'm Stacy and I'm 18 years old. I live by myself but find it hard to find a real guy who isn't interested in just having sex then leaving. Every guy I've gone out with just wants to get up my skirt. But (this is weird) there's a guy that lives right next door to me who is completly in love with me. He buys me flowers and write me love notes, sticks up for me when those other guys are **** heads. He always helps me out whenever I need it. But the thing is that he's in his mid fifties. I like the way he treats me but the age difference is a major factor. What do I do?



Reply from greek User Rating:  0 Knowledge Tokens
Id say 50 is a little too old for you, where do you look for guys at, maybe you should try having coffee with them and getting to know them for a week or two, before you invite them to your home. A guy who is interested in you will wait if he shows signs of a one thing in mind, ditch him and move on. Also try being conservative about the way you look, and act, don't let them in your head and heart rite away, keep your distance and at the same time keep them interested. Life, and relationships is about balance.
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Reply from xxlauzixx User Rating:  130 Knowledge Tokens
wow 50 is wayyy to old for you! im 17!
i met my boyfriend on a chatroom he was really nice cos most of the guys you get on there are perving on you and stuff he was just bein friendly and all i got his msn we chatted for a while, then i got his number, a few months later i asked him out he said yes! thing is he lived in a big city Birmingham and i live like 2 and a half hours away from him we saw each other alot and over 17 months of seein each other he moved up here to be with me hes 21 wich isnt bad!, so i would say go on chatrooms but you gotta be carefull! go to nightclubs theres some pretty decent guys there, go for a coffee, or just flirt with a guy you like, take it slow first of all, xxx
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Reply from MrDan User Rating:  10 Knowledge Tokens
Im 50 also, either He could be just companionship lonely, or maybe he lost a daugher , My advice is keep it slow, If hes looking to fill an empty slot in his life, your going to have to figure out what role it is,, spouse , daughter, or just a friend.... MR Dan
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