a friend who needs reassurance

Question by lover454 Reward: 25 Pond Points + 10 Knowledge Tokens Status: Pending a resolution
UPDATE: Ok today at 2:00PM Stacys mother called Stacy on her cell phone to let Stacy know where Stacy should pick her up. Any way here is what happened:

Stacy: Let me ask you something
Mom: What
Stacy: Are you saying I should never go to the 99 cent store
Her Mom: Absolutely not

So my question: Can Stacy finally accept her mother does not care if Stacy goes to the 99 cent store or not?





FIRST PART: Today Stacy (who is in her 50s) and her mom (who is in her 80s) were having lunch at the diner in their neighborhood. Here is part of the conversation that took place.

Stacy: I know what I am going to do on Saturday
Mom: What
Stacy: the 99 cent store
Mom: What happens if your niece calls you and wants to take you to lunch
Stacy: That is different. But mom do you see why I get upset - you make comments. Are you saying that I shouldnt go to the 99 cent store
Mom No. I am not saying you should go and do something else instead, but you are making it sound like it is the highlight of your weekend.

Any way when they got home they got into some fight saying horrible things to one another. Later that night the following conversation took place:

Stacy: Mom can I ask you something? I still feel you are telling me that you dont think I should go.
Mom No but I like to go stores - whether it is Kohls, a supermarket, or the 99th cent store. But they are just that stores. It is not a social event.
Stacy: Mom why cant you just say ok when I told you where I was going.
Mom I dont have to watch what I say

Stacy was really upset because she doesnt understand why her mother cares so much. MY QUESTIONS: (1) Did Stacy overreact in the diner. When her mother stated What if your niece calls you

Keep in mind the other things her mother said would not have been said by her mother if Stacy didnt react to what if your niece calls


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Comment from RoamingInsomniac User Rating:  2070 Knowledge Tokens
Please, do talk to your doctor about upping your medications. Something you are taking is making you go all over the Internet asking this. I have seen you ask this, AND be booted from: YahooAnswers, Wondir, Answerology, and MANY others. You have a specific issue, and you and I have spoken about this problem. Please, talk to your doctor like I suggested, so you will not have to continue to ask things like this Over and Over. You need to move out of your mothers and back into the home you lived in. That will Also help you. A woman in her 50's should not care what an 80 year old mother says. Normal people don't do this.


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