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Question by ev705 Reward: 25 Pond Points + 10 Knowledge Tokens Status: Pending a resolution
Dating a girl for 3 months and she told me that she talks to her ex boyfriend every blue moon.She told me in the past the onlu thing she shared with her ex was great sex but that is the past.Three weeks ago her Ex called and ask to have sex with her see claim she said no.She and I went out to eat last week and she showed me her phone and I saw she had recently talked to her ex boyfriend several times recently and within the last two weeks she added her EX to her cell phone favorite 5 so she could talk to him free. She had dated her EX for 7 years.She said she had broke up with her EX several times and dated other guys but she eventully went back to her EX.
I think she plans to get back with her EX and cheat on me. We are both in our eariler 40's. What do you think. I told her I'm not stupid



Reply from cduk User Rating:  0 Knowledge Tokens
Tell her you will help her all she can if she is willing to really commit to you, and that she must let you know about any contact she makes with ex, but if she won't be honest with you in letting you know about any contact and won't let him go emotionally ect, then she's lost you.
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Reply from jamie User Rating:  10 Knowledge Tokens
Come on, get real.... You are in a dead end relationship and she is waisting your time. She admitted she had dated a few times and keept her pattern of getting back with her x. What the story is here, they break up he goes and dates-sleeps with other girls, she does the same and then they get back together because they are connected in some sick level and need eachother, like the dating games you played in high svhool. sorry but get out RUN
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Reply from StefanieS User Rating:  0 Knowledge Tokens
before you fet hurt you need to let her go! She don't love you if she did she would forgt all about her EX! All you are going to do is get hurt!
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Comment from RoamingInsomniac User Rating:  2070 Knowledge Tokens
You know that she Must have feelings for him since she goes right back to him. Why do they break up? Why does she date others? You must tell her if she is Planning to leave, she needs to go now, because you are looking for a long term relationship.

Comment from Babyme User Rating:  0 Knowledge Tokens
Feelings are not really wat we can express physically. For a person 2 4get his/her first love is not easy. And u neva knw d sexual power of d Ex, d Ex might too good at bed. So find out wat motivates her.


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